during a break up, silence is the best answer, & the most complete answer.

分手时,沉默是最好的问题,最圆满的答案.

love is sweet, breaking up is inevitable. who hasn't cried at times, hurt at times, before they find their final love? breaking up is something that has to be experienced, but some questions need not be asked.

恋爱是甜蜜的,分手是难免的.谁不是哭过几次,痛过几次,才 找到最后的爱.分手是必经的,但有些问题不必问.

1. don't ask: why do u want to break up with me?
because no matter what the answer is, you won't be able to accept it.
1.不要问:为什么要分手.
无论答案是什么,都是你难以接受的原因.

2. don't ask: have you ever loved me?
whether it was love or not, at this very moment it isn't love.
2.不要问:你有没有爱过我.
爱过如何,未爱过又如何,总之这一刻就是不爱.

3. don't ask: what did i do wrong?
love isn't about right or wrong. it's about how you feel. mutual love is about emotions, not logic. when the feeling of love no longer exists, what can being right or wrong change or preserve?
3.不要问:我做错了些什么.
爱不是讲对错,而是讲感觉.相爱是谈情,不是讲理.当爱的感 觉已经不存在,对或错又可以挽回些什么?

4. don't ask: what's wrong with me? what's so good about him/her? why is he/she better than me?
why force the other person, & humiliate yourself once more & break your confidence.
4.不要问:我有什么不好.她有什么好.我有什么比不上她.
何必逼对方,再一次侮辱你,打击你的自信心.

5. don't ask: don't you remember all the happy memories we had together?
he/she wants to leave you, because he/she wants the happiness in front of him/her, or the happiness the future holds.
5.不要问:难道你不记得我们以前快乐的日子了么.
她/他要离开你,就是因为她/他要现在的快乐,和将来的快 乐.

6. don't ask: let's start over, shall we?
this way of begging or pleading, will only make him/her pity you, look down on you.
6.不要问:不如我们重新来过.
这个哀求,只会让对**得你更可怜,更卑微.

7. don't ask: can we still be friends?
dragging things the way they are will only make him/her annoyed.
7.不要问:我们以后还可不可以做朋友.
这样拖泥带水,对方只会感到厌烦.

love is the most beautiful memory. after having loved & being loved back, learn how to be content. why make things hard for him/her, & change the lovely essence of the past. use the warmth he/she used to shower on you as sweet memories on lonely days to bring warmth to yourself. memories are beautiful. appreciate the memories left behind & hold on to the happiness in front of you.
爱是最美好的记忆.爱过了,曾经拥有过了,就要学会知足, 何必为难对方,让曾经的美好变了味道.让她/他曾经给过 的温柔成为孤独时温暖自己的美妙的回忆.回忆是美丽的…珍藏 走过的轨迹…握紧现有幸福…